An excellent wife, who can find? For her worth is far above jewels.
I get the feeling that Bathsheba suspected her son had some problems. She talks to him about womanizing (31:3) knowing that one woman is his strength, but many woman would destroy him. He also seems to have a problem with excess drinking (31:4-5). Her solution? She knew her son, King Solomon, needed a powerful woman. When God offered him whatever he might want in this world, Solomon had chosen wisdom over wealth, so she appeals to what he wants, something worth more then a precious jewel. But what could that be?
First, a short Hebrew word study. Proverbs 31:10-31 is an acrostic (written in order with words that start with the letters in order of the Hebrew alphabet) Hebrew letters do not just represent sounds, but also concepts that are usually described as a pictograph.
‘ESHET-CHAYIL “Woman of Valor” The first letter of the Hebrew aleph-bet is ALEPH (pictured at the top of this post) is always silent. It represents the power of God (the unseen leader that must show in our life). Words that begin with aleph start with a apostrophe (‘) when transliterated to English. The next letter of “woman” is the Hebrew letter shin, representing an eternal-flame, a consuming fire in words that have the letter. The final letter of “woman” in Hebrew is hey which pictures fruitfulness when used as a suffix. A woman is created to be a lamp for the Almighty’s eternal flame, setting His fire (her fruitfulness) in others. …but wait, there is more! Bathsheba has used the Hebrew letter tav as the suffix instead of hey, tav is the cross, the “sign” of God our Savior, our Y’shua. The woman her son needs is marked by her love of God, putting him first in her life.
‘eshet (woman) is a hyphenated word. It is connected to “chayil“ Chayil describes a virtuous warrior, but the sword this woman fights with is the Word of God. Her battles are fought from her prayer-closet.
Bathsheba knows that the value of this daughter-in-law is far above jewels. All of Solomon’s wealth could not buy her as if she was a hot date. What is worth more then a perfect jewel? Here is where the verse gets exciting!
The jewel is not the ruby, as it is often translated in English; rather it is a pearl. That shocked me when I first realized what the jewel is. I had to do a word study on pearl (H6443 paw-neen’). Pearls are developed from pain and harvested by the death of the creature they grew in.
Women are not born CHAYIL, it is not even something she becomes when she is born again, even so, Y’shua-Jesus must live in her heart before she can be chayil. The virtue of the Warrior of God starts with a heart that thanks the Almighty “in all things and for all things” (1 Thessalonians 5:18). Thanksgiving is a testimony of trusting God, acknowledging Him in my life. Something that comes into my life and causes pain is what can develop the priceless beauty of the pearl in my life.
and upon finding one pearl of great value, he went and sold all that he had and bought it. Matthew 13:46
One pearl of great value, when found (and they must be searched for) will cause a man to give up everything else to obtain it. But Bathsheba tells her son that this woman is worth more then everything he has. What can be worth more then everything?
And the acquisition of wisdom is above that of pearls. Job 28:18
How blessed is the man who finds wisdom and the man who gains understanding.
For her profit is better than the profit of silver and her gain better than fine gold.
She is more precious than jewels; and nothing you desire compares with her.
Proverbs 3:13-15
“For wisdom is better than jewels; and all desirable things cannot compare with her. Proverbs 8:11
Solomon had chosen wisdom over wealth. (2 Chronicles 1:7-12) He had already chosen what was best and the Almighty blessed him for his choice. Now his mother urges him to desire a woman who is his equal, worth more then precious pearls! But what is wisdom? Can we pay for an education that will make us wise? If you have met many collage graduates, you know that education does not make you wise. Does age make you wise? Experience is not wisdom. What is wisdom?
1 Samuel 16:6-7 When they entered, he looked at Eliab and thought, “Surely the LORD’S anointed is before Him.” But the LORD said to Samuel, “Do not look at his appearance or at the height of his stature, because I have rejected him; for God sees not as man sees, for man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.”
Wisdom is in the heart. The throne of Y’shua is our heart. When we give thanks to the Almighty in Y’shua-Jesus name for every circumstance, we acknowledge Him in our life. We ask for His direction as we walk through the dark valleys, prayer is our connection. To see life from God’s perspective instead of from an emotional or logical perspective is wisdom. In the parable of the Ten Talents (Matthew 25:14-30) the first two slaves knew they were entrusted with the masters wealth. They knew his Way and used His money, His Talents, His Way to bring increase to His kingdom. The third slave lived by emotion. Fear ruled him instead of thanksgiving in the prayer-closet. His angry master rebuked him, he lost everything because he did not…
Trust in the LORD with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge (thanksgiving) Him, and He will make your paths straight.
Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the LORD and turn away from evil. Proverbs 3:5-7
Debs in Everett, Washington
Is there pain in your life? I challenge you, Woman of God, to offer a sacrifice of Thanksgiving to God (Psalm 116:17). I know from experience that thanksgiving is not always given in joy. It truly can be a sacrifice! Cry your tears, they are precious to the Almighty (Psalm 56:8). You may not be able to go forward until you have released your tears. Y’shua cried drops of blood for the pain he was about to go through at the cross, but committed himself to “not my will but thine be done” Trust your pain to the Abba-Father who adopts you as His own because of what Y’shua did. (** Revelation 21:4) Be the warrior of greater value then any prize earth has to offer!